CALL ME YO DADDY Sorry to crash the party but I was using Saft for better tab functionality before this came out. However a simple terminal command is all you need to make Safari's default tab functionality mirror Firefox and Opera's. This commands simply opens links in a new tab instead of an annoying window. Expert from MacUser:
You are required to launch Terminal (which can be found safely nestled within /Applications/Utilities) and enter this command:
defaults write com.apple.Safari TargetedClicksCreateTabs -bool true
Once you hit return and relaunch Safari, you’ll find that it will never steer from the noble path of the single window web browser now, no matter how trying the circumstances. The gates to ultimate web surfing joy will part and you and Safari will live happily ever after.
(Version 0.6.1)